It is important to think about the questions you may wish to ask for sure. In this section I will try and deal with some of the very frequent but awkward questions I am asked. the goal is to always try and remain humble.
Can we come and see you performing your role at someone's event?
The gift of inviting a prospective invitee to another's event falls upon the parents at each event, not the preacher. Personally, I also don't think it is right to want to view a preacher in this way. I would rather people research my achievments and ability.
Do you have a DVD we can see of you performing your role?
Sadly not one couple will give me a copy of their DVD and allow me to show that to others. I mean, it is understandable. Do we ask the same of preachers in other faiths. Have faith. Prayer is about hope and love.
Do you conduct silent weddings?
Peaceful weddings aren't a new phenomena. They are possible but in order to do this all the factors that affect peace must be considered and everything must be done to ensure a serene environment. For further understanding of this do read the testimonials and consider spending a moment looking through the images on this website.
Do you provide your own music?
There are preachers who recomend their own family members or others to provide ceremony music. Some view such offers as professsional as they say everything is timed; others view timed operations as too systematic, too similar and none free flowing.
Do you colour co-ordinate your outfits with our decor?
Not a fair question.
Can you share with us what you are going to say in detail during the ceremony in detail?
Have faith. Be humble.
Do you say anything during a cermony which is gender specific?
I vet my words carefully so that I can be gender neutral. I also try and avoid disprespecting other faiths.
Why did you become a preacher?
I became a preacher as a matter of a role handed down. It's a calling. As years progress peoples attitudes towards preachers changed. Please do remener a Preacher is a guest. Respect gets respect. Thank you.