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It is important to think about the questions you may wish to ask us for sure. In this section I will try and deal with some of the very frequent questions I am asked.

 

Do think about what you might ask and how you ask. My only condtion is respect. If irreleavnt questions are asked with disrespect I may not answer.
 

Can we come and see you performing your role at someone's event?

​​​​The gift of inviting a prospective invitee to another's event falls upon the parents at each event, not the preacher. Personally, I also don't think it is right way to engage. Those that feel this request is acceptable are free to pursue that with others. I would rather people research my achievements and ability in a humble way.

​​Do you have a DVD we can see of you performing your role?

In terms of events recordings are kind of personal. It is not right for me to ask couples for recordings. I mean, it is understandable. ecordings are often private and costly.  Prayer is about hope and love.

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Do you conduct silent weddings?

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Peaceful weddings aren't new phenomena. They are possible but in order to do this all the factors that affect peace must be considered and everything must be done to ensure a serene environment.

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What are your views on provisional bookings?

No thank you. Would you place a date in your diary that is not confirmed, Placing a date is a tremendous commitment because it means we aren't available to others and family on invited dates.

Do you provide your own music?

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There are preachers who recommend their own family members or others to provide ceremony music. The ethivs of this is questionable. I do not because I do not have those links and I believe you should have a choice between live singers, live instrumental and DJ controlled music. Some view priest and wedding music packages as more professional as they say everything is timed; others view timed operations as too systematic. Whoever you select for muusic and their  professionalism and behaviour impacts .  in many ways

Do you colour co-ordinate your outfits with our decor?

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No. As a free soul, I choose what I wear kurta wise on the day.

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Can you share with us what you are going to say in detail during the ceremony in detail?

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Have faith. Be humble. If you have a vision of your wedding day;  that is ok but please try and ensure that the vision includes humility and kindness. Me, I am just a preacher conducting prayers.

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​Do you say anything during a ceremony which is gender specific?

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I vet my words carefully so that I can be gender neutral. I also try and avoid disrespecting other faiths or minorities.

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What is the process of inviting you?

Pretty simple really. Call to see if I am free, we can have a brief discussion, Happy to meet during the day but only with covid specific precautions in place.

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